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I can't believe my sweet boy is 9 months old. The best and most frequent piece of advice I got when Elijah was born was this: Cherish every moment, even in the difficult times, because he'll grow up before you know it. I used to sing a song I made up for him when he was tinier, especially on the days I was exhausted and could have gotten impatient with him. I always went back to that advice, knowing that he was never going to be this little again, and I would sing my song to him. It never failed to change my perspective, no matter how difficult the circumstances. My little song went like this: I've gotta hug you and kiss you, and love you and hold you. Hug you, kiss you, love you, hold you...cause you'll never be like this again.
I think about that advice often with such sadness and joy as I see him leaving one phase to enter into another, but it does make me cherish it all. I love watching him learn and grow beyond what he knew and was the previous day, but it is difficult to see phases end. I love being his mom. It really is a delight and a privilege to be entrusted with this life. I love watching the wonder in his eyes as he experiences something new. I can imagine the synapses occurring in his brain. I also love his hopeful anticipation of affirmation when he has done something exciting. And let me tell you there's a lot of exciting stuff when it comes to Elijah's growth and development!
It is simply amazing how quickly he has changed and developed over the past few weeks! He had his 9 month check up on the 10th of this month and his pediatrician, Dr. Munson, was pleased with his development. I am so much more confident as a mother than I was the first six months or so of Elijah’s life, but it is still reassuring to get her stamp of approval and affirmation. So, our little heavy weight champion weighed in at 19 lbs. 6oz and is 28.5 inches tall. Actually, he might not be in the heavy weight division because he has typically been in the 75th percentile for his weight, but he jumped down to the 25th-50th percentile. She attributed it to the heightened activity level of a 9 month-old, but wouldn’t all nine month olds get more active leaving him in the same percentile? Who knows…what I do know, though, is that he was way more active in the past month.
Our sweet boy has especially changed in the past couple of weeks. In the last week he began to independently pull up to a sitting position from his tummy and he is now officially crawling! I ordered the locks for the cabinets and a gate for the kitchen just in time because he has started to realize his new found freedom and is exploring his ability to pull stuff down or out quite consistently. So, he is getting into much more stuff! So far, he only seems to be pulling down his own books from the entertainment center and diapers I had stored at the bottom of his changing table that are too small for him, but he is moving fast now so we put locks on a few of the cabinets that he can get to. They are these cool adhesive magnet locks that you can 't see at all from the outside. It is comical how many times Aaron and I pull on the cabinet before we remember to get the magnetic key. Hopefully we'll learn as quickly as Elijah. Aaron spent his evening last night getting the gate up.
For quite some time Elijah would take two “crawl steps” plop down on his belly and reach for whatever he was going for even if it was quite far off. After he realized he couldn’t reach it he would pull up to a crawling position, take two more “crawl steps” and plop down on his belly to reach for his heart’s desire again. He would repeat this until he finally got to what he was going for or until he got distracted by a new goal. Now, he just gets up and goes! I vacuumed the other day and he kept chasing the vacuum cleaner around the house. We had him touch it quite a bit when he was smaller so he wouldn't be afraid fo it...yeah, it worked. His crawling has also made me realize I have to vacuum much more because he eats anything he finds. I can tell immediately if he is being a little hamster. Whether it is some treasure found off the floor or a few finger foods from the end of dinner, I can tell when he is storing treats in cheeks! One of his favorite pass times is shredding Kleenex or paper and then he does little taste tests if I don't have my eagle eyes on.
The filling of the mouth with as much as he can get in seems to be a relatively new thing. I am wondering if this just is a normal stage of development. I am pleased with the fact that I make almost all his food now. It doesn't take too much time if I take a couple days to focus and make a couple months worth and then freeze it, and it is far less expensive. So, I think he eats a wide variety of healthy foods from avocados to apples, among other fruits. I think currently his favorite fruit may be blueberries, but he has always loved apples. He eats several kinds of squash, cheese, green beans, broccoli, cauliflower, peas, sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, corn, carrots, chicken, salmon and his new found favorite of all, hot dogs. I don't know why, but this seems to be the main thing he likes to store in his mouth.
Oh, yes, back to the crawling. He seems to love changes in scenery because he will be on his tummy and then pull up to a sitting position. After a moment or two he will get into a crawling position, take off for only a few moments before he is sitting again, back on his tummy, rolling over to his back, rolling back to his belly, sitting up, crawling, sitting, crawling, sitting, rolling, sitting, crawling. He just happily goes in circles practicing his new found mobility.
Another exciting development is that Elijah has barely started to communicate using American Sign Language. The sign he uses most frequently is all done at meal time when he is full and sick of me trying to sneak food in his mouth! He does the sign for milk, but doesn’t usually actually want milk at the time so I suppose he’s not quite there. The two cutest things he does are wave and clap. He usually waves backwards so his palm is facing him instead of his audience, but every once in awhile he gets it. And, then he claps when we say, “Yay!” or if he is excited. Lately, when I am doing his nap routine with him he waves at one of his teddy bears and has this huge smile on his face. Pretty adorable!
These days, Elijah enjoys doing a lovely, high pitched squeal when he is excited and he blows raspberries with his tongue. Those are especially fun in the library and in restaurants when people are trying to enjoy a meal. Today, we went out to eat with Joe and his sister, Marie, because she is in town visiting and Elijah blew a raspberry at our waitress when she asked him if he was okay. I think she was a bit offended. Really. His favorite things to say are, “Ba ba ba ba,” “Da da da da,” “Ma ma ma ma" and "Ya, ya, ya, ya.” He loves music and for Aaron and me to sing. When we sing he bounces forward and backward in the crawling position. He's got some cool dance moves and he claps!
Elijah is in desperate need of a haircut and has an appointment for his first haircut on Wednesday. It is one of those bitter-sweet things. We are going to a salon for kids so evidently they are good at distracting them so the stylist can actually cut without a big battle. We’ll see!
Enjoy the photos from the past month and let me know what you think of the blog!
Elijah does this adorable either bashful
or intentionally cute smile at people,
especially his Daddy! The even cuter part
is when he tilts his head to the side and
closes his eyes bashfully.
He is probably thinking,
"Dude, I've got them so wrapped!"
One of our favorite parks! Salmon Bay
Elijah is finishing up his cherrios and
yogurt melts while he is trying to mix in
some dirt and grass. I have to be
super diligent to keep him from eating
wood chips. Just ordered a waterproof picnic
blanket to avoid him eating everything!
Elijah is super strong. It really shocks Aaron and me.
He is constantly pulling himself up in the position or with
his booty in the air. Here, Daddy is punishing him and
so he is doing push-ups. ;)
This is one of the times we were not very insightful
and we were encouraging Elijah to crawl. ;)
This is one of Elijah's last baths in his
awesome little tub that fit in our
kitchen sink. Doing something for the last
time always makes me a bit sad.
He was just getting too big for it and
mostly to grabby and splashy!
Testing his strength, I suppose!
One of his favorite positions.
Had to get a bare butt shot in here! Too cute!
The new bath set-up! He doesn't look too fully
convinced here, but he has gotten used to it now and
can splash to his heart's delight.
There's my boys! I love those smiles!
This is shortly after Elijah perfected his crawl. He
couldn't stop long enough to fall asleep and he was exhausted!
This was the same night he couldn't stop crawling
around and had just learned how to sit up on his own.
He saw out of his crib for the first time and kept
looking at me and then out the crib. His expression said,
"Hey, Mommy! Did you know my room is out there and
I can see it from here!" It was hilariously cute!
Just a cute one of him "reading" a book from the library!
Elijah is pretty proud of himself when he
stands alone. He can pull up if he
is holding our hands, but he still doesn't
try to pull up on many other things yet.
The new gate may change that. I don't mind
too much because he often tumbles
down after a little while so it makes me
nervous. Whenever he hits his head he
pulls on his ear like he did when he
was teething. I try to consistently sign
pain to him when he hurts himself
so he can communicate when he is hurt
before he can talk. I hope that doesn't
turn out like his milk sign though!
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